Over Forty Wellness Podcast

Happy Ever After with Valentina Tudose

February 14, 2021 vincent Season 1 Episode 27
Over Forty Wellness Podcast
Happy Ever After with Valentina Tudose
Show Notes

Introduction
Valentina is a Transformational Relationship Coach, a Clinical Hypnotherapist, TEDx Speaker, Yverest Sexpert Ambassador. She works with single women and couples through Coaching, Workshops and Talks.

Valentina has featured in Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, South China Morning Post and is a frequent guest on Kong Kong Radio. Her TEDx talk on "Embracing Unconditional Love" is a very moving story.

Timing
2:36  I was born in Rumania in the communist time  ....... "Dracula Country"
4:50  Let's move to Asia ......
6:25  I am a big fan of Italian Food.....
7:27  I'm a "Transformational Relationship Coach" There is a belief that Hong Kong is a difficult place to find love......
9:28  I help women discover their "Inner Queen" working on empowerment at any stage in a relationship.
11:59  Helping clients find their "Vision"..... A guide on a person's Life Journey.
14:00  We have the potential to be everything.....
15:09  Most of my clients - I work to change their "Point of View"
16:33 People usually compare themselves to a Fantasy. They should compare themselves to who they were yesterday.
18:05 We create a plan with milestones, a destination, we need to break it down.
19:30 We tend to be "Self Critical" - I help clients to create a Vision.
21:15 I work in four different areas
    1. Single women who want a relationship
    2. Couples - afraid of commitment
    3. Breakup recovery
    4. Infidelity - through this crisis we can see if there is still life in the relationship.
29:18. At first I thought a coaching approach could solve my clients problems with conscious conversations....... Sometimes sub-conscious treatment is required.
31:30 Anger made me feel alive ......push the anger to a positive position.
33:55 I have - A combination of skillsets that together help my clients....
35:40 I do a coaching session then decide the appropriate therapy.... To be flexible and adaptable.
38:50 I am always ready to refer clients to another specialist as the need arises.
41:30  I want to add expertises to my skillset. NLP(Neuro Linguistic Programming) is a good example - a great personal growth. There are so many ways to expand.
45:00 I love my routines - We are all creatures of habits - I practice gratitudes and self-appreciation at least three of each. I encourage my clients to do the same.
47:12 I also like Boxing .....
48:42. There are no mistakes in life, only lessons..... looking for the silver lining.
53:54 Stupidity - I had to ban the word from my vocabulary....
56:14 MTR Billboard: Everything happens to your advantage.

Books: The Dark Side of the Light Chasers: Debbie Ford

Contact Valentina
https://happyeverafter.asia/
IG: @therealqueenmaker
https://www.facebook.com/valentina.tudose.9/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/valentina-tudose-26568a3/
TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbCXfUQGHAc


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